I have observed many teams and organisations in trying to find what their core values are. It strikes me that there are interpretations around compassion, kindness, improvement etc. All key words as a foundation to positive action and development of an optimum culture. I notice that those individuals that are encouragers work on the principles that would develop a culture of growth and autonomy, with an all encompassing positive value set. If we were all encouragers it would achieve the directives and strategies within organisations that we are striving for. This would assist with a sense of optimum health and wellbeing, which in turn support productivity, retention and joy in work.
A small step can develop, start with a conversation with a colleague, an offer of going through aspirations, talking positively in your team about the way forward…
Watch how those you encourage blossom, and make sure that you have your encouragers around you too, that is so important in order to keep yourself in the right place, at the right time for personal growth.
“If you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get the same results”, it is a familiar quote and one that rings true every time you hear it. There are also buzz phrases such as “think outside the box”, and this could mean simply taking on board and trying things out from someone else’s perspective. We often think that implementation has to be rooted in the way out or radical, but it could be the simplest solution with the least disruption that could be bang on the money.
Taking from this, is the idea that innovation is in everyone, there is always thinking that could drive change. To get to this, as leaders, we need to listen and hear those around us, those that are experiencing the reality, day to day. It is key to ask the right questions because they may take for granted what the solution is, but it is so obvious to them that they might assume we had already thought the same.
Working together with effective communication, drawing things out, talking, listening, trialling...Whatever you are working on, use a holistic approach to gaining the knowledge and expertise from those around us to provide the best outcomes possible.
Think differently, do differently and who knows where that might take you, but one guarantee is that you will have learnt something new about the work your doing, the environment, your colleagues; the list is endless, but most of all, you gain more insight into yourself, try it…
I had completely forgotten how busy one gets undertaking operational work. I have been doing some interim work combined with a transformational piece and have not stood still to blog. Not that I have not been learning and reflecting all the way though, that always goes on…
It has reminded me so much of how balancing wellbeing at work is such a fine line. Whilst I have been busy advising others, giving workshops and providing educational pieces for marketing, I have put myself on the back burner. Passionate as I am, I have to check myself that I am taking a breather too.
I have a renewed admiration for those in operational roles and believe that anyone in that position is best placed as a role model to colleagues. Building-in wellbeing “moments” into the day and encouraging this in others creates a culture change to occur. Consistent messaging about what is expected in terms of these positive, healthy behaviours can really influence for good. If you can evidence the change then even better when influencing others.
So a lesson learned here is to stop, take stock and reflect as a regular healthy habit, for your own benefit and in influencing positive, healthy change in others.
Change is inevitable and even those of us who are well versed in it and comfortable too, there are times of doubt and deliberation. So what is the tonic to this?
So, moving on, even when in the same place is something that should occur regularly to ensure development, self-awareness and emotional intelligence. Prevent getting stuck and regularly reviewing life and work with fresh eyes.
Undertaking change shows really clearly what we are wedded to in terms of the status quo. Change really holds up a mirror to where we are rigid and more fluid in our understanding of ourselves and how this plays out in our day to day lives. If challenged, all this bubbles to the surface and with some delving, prompting, exposure, reflection and feedback - my, is it possible to realise the current state of play!
Fixed thinking can be helpful at times, through being able to assist with making rapid decisions or in giving expert advice. However it is important to re-evaluate and freshen knowledge and skills to adapt to the various circles that we live in. It is easy sometimes to stand as a facility to change and feel at ease, but when it is you doing the changing - that can look very different. My greatest fear is to be stuck, and to wake up years on with a eureka moment that I wished I actioned years ago. Yes, hindsight is a great thing, but it is better to be able to say you changed and tried than to have stayed static for fear of the unknown. In my experience, the unknown soon becomes the comfort zone and time to move on is much needed.
Look for your encouragers and opportunities, they are there waiting, for when YOU are ready...
Assessment is the mainstay of nursing, it is the basis of all ongoing plans. It informs, and if robustly undertaken with the patient at the centre, can be facilitative in many ways. It relies on the holistic overview of the individual at a point where they are at now, prior to current touchpoint with healthcare services, as well as where they are anticipating that the they will will be going forward.
It is possible to slip into siloed thinking with some frameworks, as although often holistic completing does not necessarily facilitate a consideration of how they interlink, one aspect impacting on the other - that comes with practice and skill. Whilst models are helpful, they are not to be undertaken in isolation, without fully understanding how systems are linked. This informs the questions to be asked and being mindful of the matrix of enquiry creates the holistic overview.
What is being assessed, and guiding the assessment process is paramount, as without self-awareness, it is possible to limit the assessment with assumption and misguided focus. If for example someone is coming into the healthcare with a physical issue, the focus for the individual may be the psychological impact that is most disruptive, whilst being resilient to a condition that may have been an aspect of their lives for some time, or not deemed as consequential.
With all nursing, the assessment is so crucial in fully understanding what is going on for the individual. How their current presenting issues impact on the day to day functioning in their lives, it is essential to fully understand, and also to explore ability is an appropriate element.
The assessment is a powerful multi facetted tool requiring skill and knowledge - embrace it from the first day of nursing and all the rest will fall into place in all paths that open up to you.
I read recently an advisory, suggesting that looking back over achievements and adversity whilst considering the key benefits and challenges can support forward planning. This is in understanding better what the elements were that brought you to be where you are today and how these may take you forward. When it referred to looking back, it meant with a lens of self evaluation, not pointing fingers of blame or crediting others, but really seeing what the internal response was and how this affected the outcome. Look out for patterns that may emerge and what you might have done differently for taking forward, and again, whether there is a pattern to that too. Are there new skills needed? Elements of emotional intelligence that need work? Are there common situations that bring out the best/worst in you? All questions that support positive change, but also define recognition to flag any potential repetition in the future.
Reflection can be really positive, but it is essential, to glean benefit from it to do so with a self-awareness hat on, to derive emotional intelligence and learning.
I have been thinking recently about work related stress and whether this could be applied, in principle, to both the school and working environments. There is considerable impact on our economy at the moment in terms of the amount of sickness absence there is in our society, and as we are all too aware this is statistically weighted as being due to mental health conditions. In my experience of managing cases within the workplace, the themes that impact are relationships, workload and the competency/confidence to undertake the work. The effect of these are of course reliant on the individual resilience and perspective of the person, which should be taken as a given.
Having observed the stress for some students, it may be possible to correlate the term of “work related stress” to both environments. The polarity with this however is in the management and advice provided by the relevant advisors, guided by misled policy being administered in a blanket response to all children and young people. In the workplace there should be a solution focused approach to return to work balanced with an approach of giving a period of reflection that often supports a review of practice and work/life balance that supports putting relationships into perspective and appreciating the key issues that require support, and plan for them collaboratively. How work related stress can be observed is often irritability or insular behaviours, a strong sense of avoiding attending work or certain work activities, as well as a general sense of low self esteem or not coping. In our school environment, where equivalent symptoms may be experienced the consequences are being labelled as "school refuser", potentially face exclusion or slip through the net in regards to behaviours and struggle with relationship issues with peers and teaching staff alike, potentially compounding a negative sense of self worth and ability. Of course in both environments this is experienced and perceived as some or all of these parts. This does give rise to the question of, if this is the experience in school , then what are the knock-on effects for the perception of facing adversity later on in work?
Considering an asset-based approach that coaches individuals in the school and workplace, there may be an opportunity for building resilience and improving mental health going forward. Instead of fighting these issues it is about facing them, head on with a public health approach that is applied across schools/organisations. There is of course variability and this could be altered through a collaborative approach being applied by creating an integrated system overview of school, college/university, transitioning into the workplace, and beyond.
Whilst we are considering the implementation of the NHS 10 year plan, it is essential to view the system as a whole and not a string of silos co-existing to manage people in part, instead of supporting the whole - a public health approach is the way forward.
I was reflecting the other day on what Christmas might mean for people in general. I have recently been listening about people, who are experiencing distress as they transition through a time that they would have otherwise shared with a loved one, but that person will no longer be there. Others that are victims of domestic abuse and enter the season with trepidation, more so than other times, because of increased alcohol use and misaligned expectations. There may be those that will be enjoying what may be their final Christmas with a loved one and every moment is savoured, drinking in memories for later retrieval. Children who might in term time get a free school meal, unlikely to have a turkey roast with all the trimmings to look forward to, let alone any gifts. Of course there are those where this is a religious celebration with deep spiritual meaning. Others it is an opportunity to reflect on the gifts life brings regardless of religion or belief. There are those that will share their time with friends or family, from a select few to a crowd. All there through choice, obligation or a mixture of both, loving it or getting through it, being at ease or challenged. There are those that are alone.
So what have come from these reflections…
That when we greet or pass the time in small talk, to try not to make assumptions, consider that Christmas time may be a glorious one, but it might also be a tough time too for some, for any number of reasons. All this considered it brings to light humanity in all its diversity. It demonstrates the ebb and flow of life and provides an opportunity to consider the humble beginnings of the Christmas story, a story of life in a world of judgement and expectation, but where the essence remains the same - that of life in adversity which requires love and understanding from within ourselves, to make anything possible. No one else can do this for us, it is using our circumstances to learn about the person within, and letting your light shine.
I have always had a passion for music and singing, and for me one of the greatest aspects of it is that complete strangers can come together and create something beautiful. Why does this work so well? There is a common goal and a passion to make it happen, that’s why. It doesn’t even matter if you are singing from the same hymn sheet, or if you are doing a jazz improvisation, the aim is the same - to give others pleasure through music.
So why not apply this to our every day. Instead of arguing over what the notes are and how they should be interpreted, have a go, and see what it sounds like, what the feedback is and whether the mood is right. Music making is about testing things out, communicating and working through it together through rehearsal. Testing out new things seems ok in rehearsal, it’s fine if you get it wrong, that’s what rehearsal is for. Rehearsal is also leading to something, a final goal, a vision. Often it is said “bad rehearsal, good performance” and in my experience, never a truer word. This embraces a sense that we falter, that we try things out, that we feedback to one another about how the mood, the style, the sound comes across. Apply this to other areas of life and it takes the pressure off. Yes of course, there is an ultimate finished product, like a concert for example to equate with our musical definition, but we understand that there is a process of refinement and that is OK, accepted, expected. Apply it elsewhere in life and accept the pitfalls as learning, the missed notes as the perfected ones in the long run. Enjoy the ride, laugh through it and make interesting deviations, be music makers of life - maybe try putting on some music and reflect on how it came to be - through trial and error, persistence, collaboration, love and passion - that doesn’t just reside in music you know, it’s life.
So give life a go, the creative way, and enjoy…